SHIKIMIKIE

Girl, it's okay to talk to a guy first. But! be sure that you're doing it in moderation. I understand that you want your presence to be felt and you want to know that you care but if you're doing it too much, you're gonna make the guy feel that there's no need for him to talk to you first since you're always the one doing it anyways. If they get used to it, it's a big problem girl. I guess that if you really want to know your worth in that guy's point of view, give it a break. If you're really of any importance, that guy would take some time in his oh-so-not-busy-day to say even just a 'hi' or a smiley or whatever. That guy should at least wonder if you're still breathing and what happened to you for not sending him a message for that day and stuff. Know your limits.

Dude, if you think that it's okay for you to feel superior and kind of just wait for a girl to message you every time, hold on a second right there brother. We girls get tired too. And you might be surprised how easy we get tired. If we feel like you're not making us feel like we're important enough for you to say even just a 'hi' then if there's another guy who can make us feel like we are important by sending us a message or whatever first or just to prove that he's better than you in lotsa ways or whatever, you're in real danger my friend. I'm not saying that we girls tend to change guys easily but believe me or not, we know when a guy treats us trashy (some girls develop this superpower later than the stupid level but they still got it). So you want to be careful.

So I've been liking this guy that I met couple of months ago (May). Well 4 months ago, he told me that he's not leading me on or something because I noticed that our conversation is kind of a lot deeper and you know (or maybe I was just assuming and expecting a lot). But apparently, he admitted that he's just a flirt or whatever like that. The next day, I asked him if he meant what he said and he said he was drunk but he didn't directly answer my question. So I told him that drunk people speak the truth and he told me that most of the time, he's still in control and he's good at lying while drunk.

We continued talking because I'm stupid and like last November I guess, he told me that he's liking this girl and would tell me stuff like about the girl almost everyday. One day he asked me if I like him (he don't have an idea), I said I don't know since he warned me not to like him and stuff like that. I told him he shouldn't flirt with me anymore since that girl wouldn't be very happy to know that he's flirting with someone. We stopped talking for like 2 days but continued talking anyways.

I think last December, I asked him about that particular girl and he told me he almost forgot about her and that he's liking another girl and yeah he would tell me stuff about that new girl again. I think the girl likes him too.

Just last last week, he told me that he do like me but didn't want to pursue because he don't want to complicate things between the two of us. Well the funny thing is he still doesn't stop telling me about that last girl. Douche!