SHIKIMIKIE: Advice
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Showing posts with label Advice. Show all posts

Friday, 23 November 2012

Life.

November 23, 2012 1
Life.

Make it happen! I guess One Direction clearly made their point when they said that we should live while we're young. Because you know, people just live as if they're just waiting for their old friend death. It shouldn't be like that. It's like wasting time and not enjoying the privilege given to us.

So while we're young, why not try to take advantage of the things we can still do while we're on it? Or even though those who are not so young anymore. And I don't mean doing crazy things that aren't good for the health. Nothing like drugs, and stuff.

Probably something like skydiving, cliff jumping, wake boarding, walking a long path, travelling, and all that good stuff. It's fun. Like, let's try to appreciate what we can still do and what we still have. You know what they say, enjoy it while it lasts.

Or maybe something we want to do but afraid of doing it, maybe there's no perfect timing for that. Maybe we are to make the perfect timing. Life's gonna pass us by without even realizing it and the next thing we know, we failed. No one wants to fail of course. We should persevere a little bit in attaining things that we want. Because they might not happen without us making a way for it to happen.

I just feel a little sad for those people who grew old but lack things like experience for them to say that they lived a good life.

It's kind of funny because lately, "life" has been my expression for some reason. Just saying. Not that it's relevant but whatever.

As a final note, I just want to say that we should always do things that will lead us to the things we want in life. Like, if we want something, we shouldn't be afraid. Well, only if it's good.

Have a good life! :)

Thursday, 15 November 2012

Not My Week. Random Ramblings.

November 15, 2012 0
Not My Week. Random Ramblings.
Like, not much luck this week. I don't know what happened to me but I know I could do better. Of course. We can always be a better version of us. IF WE WORK HARD.

If I will actually let all the things (not so good things) that happened this week take over me, then it'll be the end of me. Like, relatively. It's just that there are really some things that are meant to be forgotten. But not entirely. You have to leave with you the lessons it thought. And don't ever forget.

I'm really down because two unlucky things already happened this week. And yeah. Huh. Intern life.

But I know that it'll be better next week. Because I will make it better. You know it's not all fate and stuff. Sometimes, it's good to make your life an interactive one. You know, when you actually participate and make it work the way you want it to be instead of letting the default thing to happen. You know how there can be two players in a game and the other one is just the CPU? Like, pre-programmed? If we let that kind of thing happen to our life, it's kind of sad. And boring. If you ask me.

But I will pre-program myself this time for me to function better next week. Uh-huh. That's all I want to say.

Thursday, 2 February 2012

Should I Text First?

February 02, 2012 0
Should I Text First?
Ever wondered who should initiate the conversation first? May it be a call or a simple text? I say, it depends on who wants it more. I mean, if you're a girl, I guess it's alright to initiate the conversation once in a while. But don't be too eager to talk to a guy and be like that annoying girl that guys talk about every time. If you're a guy, you have nothing to lose believe me. Do it! Talk to her. 

Why do girls tend to initiate the conversation first?

1. We really like the guy.
2. Because if we don't, you wouldn't anyways (you guys are douche like that).
3. We want to say something.
4. Some girls just want someone to talk to.
5. We are bored.
6. We care. 

Why do guys tend to initiate the conversation first?

1. They really like the girl.
2. They want to flirt.
3. They are bored.

My advice therefore:

Girl, it's okay to talk to a guy first. But! be sure that you're doing it in moderation. I understand that you want your presence to be felt and you want to know that you care but if you're doing it too much, you're gonna make the guy feel that there's no need for him to talk to you first since you're always the one doing it anyways. If they get used to it, it's a big problem girl. I guess that if you really want to know your worth in that guy's point of view, give it a break. If you're really of any importance, that guy would take some time in his oh-so-not-busy-day to say even just a 'hi' or a smiley or whatever. That guy should at least wonder if you're still breathing and what happened to you for not sending him a message for that day and stuff. Know your limits.

Dude, if you think that it's okay for you to feel superior and kind of just wait for a girl to message you every time, hold on a second right there brother. We girls get tired too. And you might be surprised how easy we get tired. If we feel like you're not making us feel like we're important enough for you to say even just a 'hi' then if there's another guy who can make us feel like we are important by sending us a message or whatever first or just to prove that he's better than you in lotsa ways or whatever, you're in real danger my friend. I'm not saying that we girls tend to change guys easily but believe me or not, we know when a guy treats us trashy (some girls develop this superpower later than the stupid level but they still got it). So you want to be careful.